when relatives are down on their luck and you help them out by offering a place to stay, think twice!

for I had my brother and his family move in  and it was a nightmare from the beginning, from not wanting to clean up after their self to damaging things, never saying I'm sorry nor we'll pay for it, the only thing I ever heard was those damn kids, but no one will treat or respect your things as you would, so is the fault yours for offering? I'm not sure, but one would think that two people with a collage education would have sense enought to do the right thing, and leave your bad habits for when you're in your own home, if you live like a slob, oh well so be it, but as the old saying goes "when in Rome, do as the Romans" so with this, I say that if someone credit is bad and there home is messy, you should beware that they will bring the same thing to the table at your place